Separation of the parents from the kids has never been an easy thing. It does not depend much on the time you will be away from each other, but it is usually a challenging experience. Both the kid and the parent are affected. This article will talk about how you can prudently handle this situation for the good of both of you. It is quite important to know the right moment to break the news to your child about leaving. The age of the child and his temperament should guide you. Some kids may not understand the date and time interval you communicate. Since most young children tend to be extremely anxious about their parents leaving, it is advisable to reduce the span of time you make them aware of your leaving so that the length of time to worry will be greatly reduced. Older kids are much more understanding, so you can break the news to them anytime. However, once you realize that you have to leave instantly, ensure that you let your child know immediately and stay as calm as possible.
Ensure the child knows when you are leaving and where you will be going. One of the most sensitive information that you should not forget at all cost is letting your kid know when you will come back home. You can just mark the date of departure and return dates on the colorful calendar. By use of location maps and photos, you can disclose to the child where you will be. Old kids can research from the book or internet where you will be. Giving an assurance to your child that you will be taking care of him while you are away is very important. You can also further let them know where they will stay for the time you will be away. The normal routine of the child should be adhered to and not changed as it can disrupt the kid’s life. If you are privileged to have a babysitter, let her know the instructions and the feeding schedules that should be followed strictly.
You can also leave something behind like a t-shirt or a toy for the child to remember about you. Once the child watches the video tape, it can soothe her to have a good sleep. Some of the harsh goodbyes that can do more harm than good include sneaking away, acting anxiously, prolonging the departure or even showing how guilt you are. It is not good to limit communication over the phone, Skype or any video chat just for the purpose of keeping in touch and bonding as a family. It’s good to stay in touch but with limited access. It is advisable to show the babysitter or whoever is taking care of the child that you trust her completely. Make your child that she is important to you by bring souvenirs to her and sharing your experiences with her.